AJ, my husband

For starters AJ is only his nickname. I call him by his given name, but I choose to keep that a secret. It is a semi common name but spelled unique. I don't want to risk his name being "googled" and this blog coming up.

He will be 27 on March 22nd.

We met June of 2004. He had just bought a home, which now I own too, and invited me to a house warming party. We were both in long term relationships at the time, so basicly didn't think much of anything.....well I didn't. I would later find out he had a crush on me. I didn't go to his party which ended up being good because his ex girlfriend and him had a HUGE fight and I would have witnessed it.

Anyways, I saw him at school. We both had a night class the same night at the same CC. I didn't actually talk to him till September, when I asked for him to take me for a ride on his sport bike. And right then and there our relationship started...and so did the trouble. We both had ended our relationships a bit before so we were actually rebounding on each other. Not Good. We dated till the end of January 05. In a sense, that relationship was not going anywhere. He moved on to a girl we'll call DW. They dated till the end of August. I didn't do anything during that spring and summer but be single and have the time of my life.

I went on a family vacation to Mexico the end of August. (I had not spoken to AJ since April. I still cared deeply for him, but pushed all my feeling for him deep down because I just knew we could never be together again.) I came back to Texas with an email from him. He expressed to me how much he loved me and needed me. How he wanted to have our babybirds in our mouse on the praire. My nickname is BabyBird and we called his house the "mouse on the praire" since it was small.

I didn't think much of it because I took it as him rebounding from DW.

A couple weeks later I realized I was still very angry at him and wanted to forgive him. I called him up and said just that. We chatted for a bit and it was SO good to talk to him. He used to be my best friend.

Most of my feelings for him came rushing back. I knew I was in trouble.

I finally got the courage to see him again. But this was not till the end of September 05. OMG when I saw him....I wanted to hug him, hold him, be held by him...all of that. But I was very cautious.

We stayed in touch. Then the end of October, I came over for a small party his roomates and him were having....and well, I haven't left since.

We found out we were having a baby December 27,2005. We married March 17,2006 in Hill Country.

Now, there was a lot more drama and trust issues and all that good stuff...which we worked out with counseling (his idea I might add) but that could be a novel.

So here we are......married, a baby, and the dawn of a wonderful life together.

Okay, my hands hurt....I need to go...bye.